People visit Temples/ seek God whithout giving up material attachments and wandering mind wont allow u to b in peace even in holy place in that materialistic attitude. It is also often seen people ignore their parents and seek God but such ones' must know about Bhakt Pundarika story. Shastras clearly enunciated that serving aged parents tantamounts to taking holy dip in 64000 holy rivers at one time.
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